The kids can play and you can treat it as if you met this lady at the park and started talking to Darth Vader I may look calm but in my head I’ve choked you 3 times shirt. You don’t have to “introduce the kids” just treat it seriously as if you just met her there. You have to make time for yourself too, yes your son should and will always come first, but you need to remember that you matter too. I think we all forget that sometimes. Just make sure you let the women you’re dating know that you have a child, and he comes first. And as someone else said, the right woman will understand and support that.
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I met my now partner through work. It was unexpected Darth Vader I may look calm but in my head I’ve choked you 3 times shirt. We worked in a hospital together. Anyway, I would wait until my son was in bed and then hang out with him for a while. We loved driving around and talking. That was our favorite kind of date. We went running together too. It was a small 1-hour type of things but it wasn’t rushed or forced. Again, completely unexpected. We had both been single for a few years. Everyone says single moms are the best, but blended families might be better. Someone who understands the struggle. Meet her/him at family events, a friend or the family, or at school might be a good idea. Tell her you to have kids; if she runs away to hell with her. Don’t keep the kids a secret, build trust and understanding over time, tell her you are looking for someone permanent and the kids are part of the package. Of course, always be cautious, snakes are everywhere.