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He can’t get angry and mad for you bringing Irish St. Patrick’s Day Gnomes hug beer shirt up. You need to work through it and he needs to let you. If he can’t be open and honest about cheating and give you what you need to get through it then it won’t work. Part of being open and honest is listening to you get your feelings out and admitting to everything and being willing to talk about it. If he can’t then you won’t be able to get past it. Have you tried couples therapy? Working through the feelings with a neutral party could help. Especially because he won’t be able to get mad and yell or stomp his way out of actually talking and admitting what he did hurt you.